Intimacy
Is Not a Theory.
It's a Practice.

Welcome to my practice. A private, high-touch intimacy coaching experience for men ready to exude confidence, command attention, and experience real connection.

Regina Gelfo - Intimacy Coach
"The wounds that happen in relationship must be healed in relationship."

You've tried the apps. Therapy. Pickup artist games. Seven-step blueprints for success on YouTube. Maybe you've even tried seeing escorts.

What you probably haven't tried is experiential intimacy coaching.

I believe it's actually ineffective — bordering on cruel — to spend months or years offering only "talk therapy" to someone who is serially single or profoundly touch-starved, asking them to strategize intimacy from the neck up.

Instead, we could be having those same conversations — but far less heady — while intertwined in an oxytocin cuddle pile that instantly eases decades of tension. The nervous system resets to safety. Clarity arrives not through working harder, but through finally being held.

And since I'm not a licensed therapist… I have 100% license to cuddle 😉

Regina smiling

Hi, I'm Regina.

Your Secret Weapon

Part coach. Part guide. Part muse. Deeply human. Annoyingly real.

If a somatic therapist, shaman, and tantrika had a baby… that would be me. My aura is larger than my 5'3" frame would suggest. My work is deeply nurturing and unapologetically fierce.

My superpowers are calling bullshit with love, effortlessly catalyzing "aha" moments (often with a giggle), and continually redirecting your consciousness toward a deeper understanding of how to create — or receive — what you most desire.

This Might Be For You If...

  • You have success, intelligence, resources, and depth
  • You've done therapy, coaching, or personal growth
  • You still feel blocked, lonely, or disconnected in intimacy
  • You crave real connection (not transaction or fantasy)
  • You can taste the next frontier of your development
  • You want to deepen your tantric / energetic skills
  • You are emotionally literate enough to hold complexity

This work is designed for men who are:

  • The guy in your friend group who's always single
  • Recovering from separation or divorce at midlife
  • Pushing 40 and embarrassed by how little sexual/relationship experience you have
  • Grappling with bigger questions about life & purpose as you age
  • Explored a little tantra and want to go deeper
  • In a long term relationship that has lost the spice or connection

Who This Is Not For

  • You are looking for an escort, sugar baby, or transactional sex
  • You want light fun without personal growth
  • You cannot respect boundaries or consent
  • You are emotionally volatile or unresourced
  • You are only hiring me because you secretly want to date me (I don't date clients)

Warning

Enter at your own risk. This work requires groundedness, maturity, and integrity. I'm an edge-walker, and you probably are too. This only works from a place of deep honesty, with people capable of going there.

The Core Problem

Most men don't fail at intimacy simply because they "lack confidence." This is a relational nervous system issue, not a mindset issue.

01

Suppression

You learned to suppress desire instead of owning it.

02

Performance

You learned performance instead of presence.

03

Safety vs Distance

You confuse safety with distance and fear rejection so deeply you numb out.

The Solution

Experiential Intimacy Coaching

At the edge of what exists

This is a relational immersion held with structure, depth, and intention.

I work with you as your intimacy coach, your consort-companion (with clear boundaries), and your practice partner in safe, consensual relational presence, spanning emotional and physical connection.

The work is experiential. We learn in real time, through direct practice.

Together, we focus on:

  • Knowing and claiming your desires
  • Holding attraction with steadiness and self-trust
  • Reading, respecting, and setting clean boundaries
  • Deepening authenticity & integrity
  • Repairing attachment wounds at the root
  • Developing skill in relational repair
  • Mastering tantric techniques (solo and relational)
  • Cultivating erotic confidence that feels grounded and embodied
  • Expanding your capacity to run dominant energy without "ick"
  • Expanding your capacity to receive

People often arrive seeking insight or guidance. When what is actually needed is building capacity.

Capacity to feel Capacity to desire Capacity to lead Capacity to stay present
Invitations

VIP Immersion

Custom Curated Container
$5,500
per month

This is not hourly. This is not casual. This is a container. A three-month initial commitment to transform your emotional & relational life.

  • Private 1:1 coaching sessions
  • Experiential intimacy practices
  • Monthly mini retreat (tantra, medicine, creative work)
  • High-touch communication (text/calls)
  • Clear agreements and boundaries
  • Discretion and confidentiality
Apply for Immersion

Taster Package (3 sessions)

Strategic Rapid Results
$500
Full Package

A deep dive to outline goals, understand blocks, and iterate on a specific relational strategy for immediate breakthrough.

  • 60 min Zoom coaching consultation
  • Identify and outline primary goals
  • 60 min follow-up session
  • Bonus: 60 min Breakthrough call w Relational Sovereignty Men's Coach Mars Gelfo
  • Relational roadmap & strategy
  • Immediate clarity and action steps
Book Taster Session

Medicine Assisted Therapy "Bubble"

A Concentrated Window of Neuroplasticity
$3,000
per bubble

For the man ready for a deep-system reboot. This concentrated immersion uses a medicine window to bypass defensive loops and install new relational software at the root.

  • Prep Session (90 min)
  • Medicine journey (~6 hr)
  • Integration Session (90 min)
  • 2 additional coaching sessions
  • Best used within 1 month
Apply for a Journey

Tantric Mentorship

The 3-Month Embodied Practice
$2,500
per month

A deep-tissue relational upgrade. We define measurable outcomes and show up for the 'dojo,' practicing energy, breath, and connection. Step into mastery.

  • 2 monthly Zoom Calls: Coaching + Meditation
  • 2.5 hour IRL Tantric Immersion (monthly)
  • Inner Circle: 24/7 Text Access
  • Develop custom practice methodology
  • Retreat options available separately
Apply for Mentorship

Genius Playdate: Men's Group

Extraordinary Men, Led by a Woman
$200
per month*

An invite-only, high-caliber networking and growth group for men who are ready to lead with courage, pursue their passions with tenacity, and deepen friendships with other men who get them.

  • Monthly group Zoom calls
  • Invitations to exclusive ceremonies & retreats
  • High-caliber hand-curated men from my network
  • Focus on birthing a creative project or business venture
  • Sandbox to expand your emotional connection skills
  • Make connections that change your life

*Invitations limited to current clients, graduates, and very special humans

Apply for Men's Group

Genius Playdate: Spring Retreat

St. Petersburg, FL • Spring 2026
$3,500
for the week

Seven days of wellness, geekery, creative co-working, and conscious debauchery for a handful of MY FAVORITE men, who I think need to know each other ;)

  • Daily wellness, movement, and meditation sessions
  • Local excursions and adventures
  • Creative co-working & strategy sessions
  • Magical medicine ceremonies (optional)
  • Intimate, luxury coastal setting
  • Limited to a curated small group
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"I launched my podcast, began my book, and most surprisingly—I found community. I had no idea how bored & lonely I'd been, until I felt what it was like to be this inspired & connected. Now I can't imagine life without it."
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